It is already here boomer women!
A couple of years ago I attended a three day workshop that purported to help one gain clarity and manifest their desires in the moment. My one big hang up and take away from the workshop was, the leader kept saying and insisting that “everything you desire is already here.” My thinking at the time was “if it’s already here, why don’t I see it or have it”. I left the three days more confused than when I went. Boomer women has this ever happened to you?
I now know that because of previous premature cognitive commitment (beliefs) I was unable to ‘see’ what was right in front of me. For instance, boomer women have you ever looked for something “a thousand times” and not found or seen it? Then one day you go back to the exact same spot and surprise it is right there!
What stopped you from seeing it before? Could it be that you were blinded by your previous cognitive commitment (beliefs).
Deepak Chopra relates an experiment some scientists performed on cats that clearly show 
what happens when we are prematurely cognitively committed. The cats at birth were separated into two groups. One group was placed in a room with horizontal stripes and all they could see were horizontal. The other group was placed in a room with vertical stripes and all they could see were vertical.
When the cats in the horizontal group developed and were placed in a room of furniture, they kept bumping into the furniture legs and anything that was vertical. They had prematurely committed to a horizontal world. The cats from the vertical room could not see the horizontal.
We, like the cats, boomer women learned our beliefs and attitudes (horizontal/vertical stripes) from our elders and surroundings. They taught us and showed us the best they could based on their own knowledge.
Boomer women are you bumping into furniture (dreams and desires) because you’re guided by decisions and beliefs you made long ago? Aren’t you getting tired of the bruises (feeling stuck)? Imagine going through your days seeing both horizontal and vertical strips in a new way that support and empower you.
Boomer women you can reprogram your cognitive commitments (beliefs) to see the vertical and horizontal stripes. You can build new beliefs that allow you to live the life you desire and deserve.
To get started changing your beliefs to create the life you desire and deserve email Inez@InezBracy.com to schedule a complimentary life changing strategy session.
Tags: beliefs, Boomer Women, Desires, Inez Bracy
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Does positive thinking work?
On the Living Smart and Well Show yesterday I interviewed Dr. Tomas Picard author of Mental Housecleaning. Dr. Picard’s theory is that “positive thinking doesn’t work”. He engagingly takes the reader through a series of ‘stories’ to show why just simply thinking positive doesn’t work.
He contends in Mental Housecleaning that it is important to remove old beliefs, habits and attitudes prior to positive thinking working for you.
What do you think? Have you had experiences where positive thinking worked or didn’t work? Did you notice a difference in the actions and attitudes you took when it worked or when it didn’t work?
If you missed the show you can listen here.
Tags: change, Inez Bracy, positive thinking
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Living Smart & Well: Mental Housecleaning
Inez Bracy will interview Dr. Tomas Picard, Chiropractor, author and lecturer. Dr. Picard’s book Mental Housecleaning is engaging, witty and substantive. Mental Housecleaning offers profound insights into “why positive thinking doesn’t work” and what you can do about it.
Dr. Picard will give tips on:
• It’s All in How You Look at It
• How Do I Love Me?
• I’m Okay and You’re Okay, But Lock the Doors Anyway
• Lies My Mother Sold Me
• There Must be a Trick
• The Missing Ingredient
Tags: Dr. Tomas Picard, housecleaning, Inez Bracy, mental, self help
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Are boomer women ready to stop the Alice in Wonderland Syndrome?
Alice drank a potion and shrank enough to go through the small door; but she forgot to take the key off the table! So even though she could have gone into the garden, she no longer has access. She wishes she could telescope herself into the garden. Poor Alice, she returned to the table to discover a muffin with “eat me” on it. Alice is in such a pickle she wonders if this is a good idea and then thinks “oh what the heck” and eats the muffin. She immediately notices a strange feeling and feels herself growing taller (telescoping) until she can’t see her feet.
Boomer woman you’re probably wondering “where is Inez going with this?” Think about the dreams you’ve had that remain hidden and out of reach, the many times you’ve picked them up as if drinking from a potion only to discover you don’t have enough time, energy, money or whatever to follow through. So boomer woman you decide that perhaps this dream is not for you.
Then just as you give up another solution presents itself. You think “oh what the heck” and eat enthusiastically of this new solution only to be disillusioned again. Now boomer woman you cry a bucket of tears over the time you feel you’ve wasted and your dream is still 
unfilled.
You boomer woman are wandering around in wonderland; is it any wonder that you keep swimming in your own bucket of tears/fears?
That’s okay just don’t give up! Be willing to take the responsibility of deciding what you want boomer woman, getting clear on what you want, developing a plan and following through. Being willing to do whatever it takes to live your dream life often opens up new possibilities that help to manifest the life of your dreams in record time.
Boomer woman if you’re ready to get out of the dark hallway, out of the confusion and leave the Alice in Wonderland Syndrome; begin to live your dream life and are willing to do whatever it takes, I have a plan for you. Email me at Inez@InezBracy.com to inquire on how my plan can help you get out of your Alice in Wonderland Syndrome.
What are you willing to do today to have the life of your dreams?
Tags: Alice in Wonderland, boomer woman, Boomer Women, dreams, Inez Bracy
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Have you discovered your golden key boomer women?
Filed under: Boomer Women, Desires, Life Coach, Lifestyle
Alice found herself in unfamiliar territory. So after sitting at a table for a while she decided to look around. She found many locked doors as she walked up and down the hallway. Returning to the table she saw a golden key. On her second trip she was saddened when the key didn’t open any of the doors but discovered a curtain covering a small door that the key opened. Through the small opening Alice saw the most beautiful garden.
Are you walking down the corridors of your mind and saddened when you find locked doors boomer women? Do you allow the doors to stay locked or do you like Alice discover the golden key? Wouldn’t it be lovely if you like Alice discover just one small curtain, one small opening that allows you to use your golden key to peek inside and see what your life could really be? Looking into that small opening, take a moment to visualize what your life might be like if you just take one step inside.
Your golden key is waiting to be discovered to open the door to your dreams boomer women. The doors in your corridors are not locked as tightly as you would think. Your golden key has been hidden far too long and now is the time to take the key, open the door and start designing and creating the life you’ve dreamed about boomer women.
Take some time today boomer women to walk down the corridors of your mind, your dreams, use your golden key to unlock just one door.
What do you see? How does it make you feel?
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